This is a combined questions/log thread. I'm looking at building out a stroker for my '01 XJ. The final goal is to wind up with something in the 4.5-4.7 range, puts out 310+ ft-lbs and can run on 87 or 89 pump gas. This is my daily driver/road trip vehicle so I'm going for reliability. (I know, I know

I'm still doing a lot of research and will be updating this regularly as I learn more. I'm a fair hand with a wrench in a general sense, but I'm completely new to engine internals.
Here's what I've got in terms of a parts/labor list so far (Yup, I did a lot of digging and shamelessly stole from Dino's performance site to put together the base list while I learn enough to adjust it if needed):
Jeep 4.2L 3.895" stroke crank
Jeep 4.0L 6.125" rods
Keith Black UEM-IC944-030 pistons
CompCams 68-231-4 206/214 degree camshaft
Russ Pottenger ported HO 2.00"/1.55" cylinder head
Mill block deck 0.020"
Mopar/Victor 0.043" head gasket
0.050" quench height
Ford 24lb/hr injectors
Upgrade exhaust and throttle body.
I think this is a pretty standard mildish recipe for a 4.6 with something like a 9.6ish compression ratio and should get....260ish hp, 320ish torque?
So here's my questions to start with (I'm trying to answer these myself and will update the post as I manage it):
1) If there was anything that was really helpful when you first launched down the stroker road I'm taking all inputs. I've done a lot of reading so far but I'm eager for more.
2) Where have folks had the best luck sourcing parts? Part of my research is trying to build up a cost estimate but it seems like things are unpriced or all over the place in my web research.
3) Any comments on the parts list so far? Objections? Something I'm missing?
4) The two things I know I'm not sure about:
a) What block to start with. It seems like a 97-01 would be the desired range to swap into my 01 after the build. With 00-01's having to be watched really carefully for the 0331 crack issue.
b) PCM? I don't see a lot of commentary on this, but can a stroker run on a stock PCM, seems like it would lose it's mind.
5) Any recommendations on a good machinist to use in the Dallas area would be MASSIVELY appreciated. Trying to find a dude on google is a crapshoot and I'm going to need to talk through the deck mill, overbore and restoring a 4.2L crack at the very least. Lots of other questions as well on that (parts cleaning, having a used head ported instead of buying new, magnaflux, etc).