Here is a basic image of whats going on...

I tried to show in the drawing the existing wiring to all four doors (small squares). Both unlock and lock work from the alarm. The Square lock and unlock boxes in the picture are relays that dont pass current until the alarm activates the coil side of the relays.
I would like to add two switches to activate lock and unlock within the cab. One switch on each front door. Thats what the up and down arrows represent.
Now i am unsure on how to tap into the existing wiring to activate the locks with the switches. Does anyone have some suggestions?
My idea was to just wire up each switches lock and unlock output wires to the existing lock and unlock wires (after the relays) that are already in place. I can see this working just fine with one switch, but what about two switches? Im sure it would wire up fine, and work fine with two switches, but what happens if some how both switches get pressed one way or the other at the same time? Or even press one of the buttons on the remote at the same time as pressing the same way on one of the switches? I would assume i would blow a fuse or something... thats where im getting confused. Im sure its simple... just trying to get my mind wrapped around it. Either that or im thinking about it all to hard!!
HELP!