This is not a Stroker but I have as much $ if not more then some have invested.

Before I start with the issue, I"ll list what was just recently replaced/done to hopefully help with diagnosing the problem/solution.
This is a 4.0 in a 1991 YJ that is set-up to be a DD and do pretty extreme crawling. The bottom end of the motor has about 100,000 miles on it and is stock except for the Hesco Blue printed - High volume oil pump with a dist. lube tube. This thing runs Great (except for this problem), doesn't smoke , burn or leak oil and after these mods has 140 #'s of compression at 5300' elevation (Denver area).
* Head work (by SCH Racing Heads) = Comp. valve job, new stock rated springs, surface cut head (min.), port & polish valve pockets/bowls, Port match intake to 2000 intake man. & exhaust to Banks header, Flow test.
* Valve train = Mopar Perf stage 1 Hyd.cam (240/240 dur.-.430/.430 lift) with mopar lifters, Colyes double roller chain & gears, Hesco performance rocker arm kit, Crane stock length push rods 9.639", Mopar multi-layer Head gasket.
There is a bunch more bolt on stuff to make this 4.0 all run strong, but it's probably not important to list to solve this issue.
The problem is that after just putting a new cam in, about 3-months ago (because the last one had a shot distributor drive gear) I had one of the new lifters that would bleed down over night and clatter for 1-3 mins. while it tried to pump up or if it didn't set in the lobe over night it would start up quite and as the oil would warmed up it will start to tick.

This is where the problem begins, first off I knew nothing of this measurement until I started to mention the lifter problem to people/vendors, so this was never checked when originally installing this cam. SCH Heads said to check preload by putting a dial ind. (at 0) on top of the rock arm just above the push rod and with the valve at the heal of the cam release the torque on the rocker bolt until the dial indicator stops and that is your preload amount. So I tried it and it came up to about .108, we all know (from what I read of Lifter preload posts on this Forum) that it should be between .020 to .060. I did not find this very accurate since the point of the Dial ind. is not rolling on an even surface (it's distorted where the oiling hole comes thru the rocker) and yes I'm being picky, its because I know what accuracy should be (I use to sell tooling and measuring equipment to machine shops).
After seeing this I called Bennie @ Hesco to pick his brain and he said that one thing to check is that all the valve stems should be at the same height and to take a straight edge, run it from the first valve to the last and they should all be close to hitting the straight edge. Wrong the exhaust are about .014 higher than the intakes (Fricken Wonderful). Bennie also said to check the preload by putting the #1 cylinder on TDC of the compression stroke, put the rocker arm assemble (intake & Exhaust) on the push rods and finger tighten them down until the rockers do not have anymore play but the push rods can still be freely spun, now put feeler gauges between the head and the rocker arm pivot and that distance will be your preload!!
Holy Sh*t!! Does everyone have their own special way of figuring preload?

I had already read the way Crane said to do it by marking the push rod (but found that hard to get a good measurement when trying to transfer the marks to an accurate measuring device).
Then read that Crower says to measure the distance between the retaining snap ring and the top of the lifter push rod seat when the hydraulic lifter is on the cam base circle and the push rod is installed and the rocker arm assemble is torqued down! Definitely Generic, since there is NO way to get down to the lifter when the heads on.

When I did it Bennie's way I come up with about .072 on exhaust and .014 less on the intake (just checking the #1 cyl. at this point).
Now I consider Bennie to be one of the Gods of 4.0-4.2 motors, so I mean no disrespect (especially since he has helped me out a BUNCH) when I ask if this makes sense.
Isn't there a ratio issue when it comes to measuring preload at the top of the rocker arm just above the push rod compared to a feeler gauge measurement at the bolt/pivot point of the rocker? I just can't believe that those two points are a 1to1 ratio, at least I'm not seeing it.
So this is what I did today in my confused state and after reading what DWG86 had posted on the Push Rod Length Thread, I called Trend Performance and ordered one of their Push-Rod Length Checkers. I'm thinking that the only way I'm going to get an accurate reading is to use this system, especially since I already know that all of my exhaust push rods will need to be roughly .014 shorter that the intakes. Is this

Now Bennie and SCH Heads said to just shim (roughly .012+) under both the intake & exhaust rocker arm pivot, now my exhaust would be like around .060 preload but the intake would be roughly .046. This just seems Micky Mouse to me and I have not found a readily available source for 5/16 washer shims in .012 - .014 thickness. Now on Bennie's defense, he said if it was his he would pull the head and redo the valve work.

I'm really over having this thing torn apart, especially this Time of year since I'm a 4x4 Volunteer that helps get stranded Doctors, Nurses and emergency personal where they need to be during Bad Snow Conditions.
So the question is: Do you think the different length push rods will work or am I just opening a New can of worms and has someone cured this problem another way (that doesn't involve pulling that D*** head again)!

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